Why do I still get tears in my eyes when I think about my ex?

WELL ! I had the same problem. It took me 9 months to figure it out, I had to break up with guys because i thought i missed him. Finally I found the guy i am in love with . But I still felt sad over my ex ! This is why you do . You guys aren't friends ! You probably miss what you had. When you go out with guys you don't realize how much they mean to you . I make my boyfriends promise to stay my friend if anything happens between us. So you don't miss him , you miss what you guys had. You miss your relationship. Maybe you should talk to him. Tell him that you would like to talk more and stay friends. After you do this you will feel so much better. Trust me. And if you are the kind of girl that gets nervous telling guys how you feel, then text it to him or IM him or something ! It'll never go away until you speak up ! Good luck sweetie ! Everything will be fine !(: